the perfectly right girl at the wrong time.

In the midst of one of the most troubling relationships I've been involved in, I often ask myself, is the act of flirting selfish?  Is it too much of a problem to tell someone that you like them and expect them to desire the same from you?  Is expecting someone with a difficult life and history to let you into their everything-life, family, work, soul often a difficult question to ask of them?

I was told these words last night, "you're the perfectly right girl at the wrong time." What a loaded sentence.  I know that your life has been difficult up to this point.  I know you want to love again, and be happy again, but you choose to let someone who disregards your feelings and disregards your happiness ruin it for the rest of us, then you will never be happy.

I like you, but you need to let me know what you are thinking.  You said, "I don't want to take you for granted, but it felt good to tell you my worries and have you not judge what I had to say."  and I never will, but you have to let me in.

Jared Campbell said the right thing when he said, "If you love someone they should always make you happy."  Make me happy.